HE Got me
You might be churchy if?...... You have a wish list that you keep hidden filled with the desired profile of your mate. This list is fine for all the positive reasons the WORD encourages us to be intentional about our prayers such as…. “Write the vision and make it plan, build a memorial here, hide these words in your heart, etc.” However, how often do we have hidden traits? Our unexpressed, unacknowledged additional desires and expectations from our partner, mate, or spouse. We expect that person to be a source of encouragement, validation, joy, and peace. We do not write those things on the lists because we may not be consciously asserting that expectation. Yet, we often times expect it from all of our relationships. So, even when our loved ones affirm us, encourage us, motivate us. Why do we still feel like they don’t give us what we want? The Lord will not allow it. GOD desires to be our source of validation alone. This is not for punishment or manipu